We had the privilege of attending the AAML (American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers) Conference— in Costa Rica, one of the most prestigious events in the world of family law. It’s where AAML fellows from across the country gather to exchange insights, attend informative continuing legal education, elevate their craft, and reaffirm their commitment to legal excellence. The energy and passion in every session were a reminder of just how dynamic and impactful our field can be.
And while the conference delivered everything you’d expect in terms of professional development, it also included a healthy dose of friendly competition on the golf course. Our very own Jill Blomberg walked away with the “Longest Drive” award, outdriving a field full of some of the most accomplished legal minds in the country.
That swing was the result of focus, technique, and timing. And in many ways, it perfectly reflects what it takes to be an exceptional family lawyer.
Strong advocacy starts with a solid foundation, just like a good golf stance. Preparation is everything: understanding the intricacies of each family’s situation, knowing the law inside and out, and being ready for anything that comes your way. But preparation is only the beginning. Success also depends on how well you follow through—whether that means seeing a case through trial, guiding a client through difficult negotiations, or staying present and supportive even after a judgment is entered.
And above all, it takes focus. In both golf and family law, you need the ability to stay calm, adapt quickly, and maintain your clarity even when the pressure is high. It’s not just about knowing what to do—it’s about delivering when it counts.
At the AAML Conference, surrounded by leaders and legends in our field, we were reminded why we love what we do. We refine our skills every day—not just in the courtroom, but through continuous learning, meaningful collaboration, and yes, even a little time on the golf course.
So here’s to hitting it long and straight—on the fairway, and in the practice of law.
